Hey. Fancy seeing you here. I'm actually not single anymore, but if you still want to stroll down memory lane and read this site,
The basics
I work as a designer in San Francisco at a large tech company. I also spent a lot of time in Tokyo in the before times.
You can go look at my website to see why they pay me the big bucks.
About me
- Pronouns he/him
- Orientation Heterosexual
- Age 32
- Height We'll say 5'10"
- Languages English, Japanese
I am...
- Pretty funny sometimes
- Serious when I need to be
- Very curious
- A big nerd
- Politically and culturally aware
- Going to therapy
You are...
- Intelligent and curious
- Creative and like making things
- Like being indoors and outdoors equally
- At least kinda nerdy
- Emotionally available
- Going to therapy
Photos
On Repeat
These are albums I have come back to regularly at one point of my life
or another. Some are newer and some are older, but they mean a lot to
me.
It was really hard to pick just 8 albums.
Formative Works
These manga, anime or light novels are series that I've either followed regularly for years or left a deep impact on me.
- Eiichiro Oda One Piece
- Hiromu Arakawa FULLMETAL ALCHEMIST
- Yoshihiro Togashi HUNTER X HUNTER
- Kouhei Kadono Boogiepop and Others
- Akihito Tsukushi Made in Abyss
- Akutami Gege Jujutsu Kaisen
Risks and Challenges
No relationship is without it's risks and challenges, and I am just as human as anyone else. I am trying to be more mindful of my flaws to become a better person. Here are some things I'm working on that you might still run into:
Codependency
Codependent tendencies have ended two relationships for me so far. After the last one, I've started diving into it more and unraveling my childhood trauma because I don't want it to happen again. There's unfortunately a whole lot to unpack.
Relationship patterns
I realized I've kind of dated the same "blueprint" of a person for the past 20 years. It's pretty weird and has only served to re-traumatize me over and over again. I honestly still don't know how to deprogram this one.
Anxiety
Turns out I'm actually very anxious. This manifests as needing a lot of validation and having a very hard time believing that good things are actually real—probably including you.
Get in touch
So you read all this and you actually want to get to know me more?
I'm primarily looking for women who want to chat and maybe go on a date, but new friends are always welcome too.
DM me on Twitter or send me an email at holla<at>jedmund.com and let's start chatting.