jedmund.single.fyi

The basics

I work as a designer in San Francisco at a large tech company. I also spent a lot of time in Tokyo in the before times.

You can go look at my website to see why they pay me the big bucks.

About me

Pronouns he/him
Orientation Heterosexual
Age 32
Height We'll say 5'10"
Languages English, Japanese

I am...

Pretty funny sometimes
Serious when I need to be
Very curious
A big nerd
Politically and culturally aware
Going to therapy

You are...

Intelligent and curious
Creative and like making things
Like being indoors and outdoors equally
At least kinda nerdy
Emotionally available
Going to therapy

Photos

On Repeat

These are albums I have come back to regularly at one point of my life or another. Some are newer and some are older, but they mean a lot to me.

It was really hard to pick just 8 albums.

Formative Works

These manga, anime or light novels are series that I've either followed regularly for years or left a deep impact on me.

Eiichiro Oda One Piece
Hiromu Arakawa FULLMETAL ALCHEMIST
Yoshihiro Togashi HUNTER X HUNTER
Kouhei Kadono Boogiepop and Others
Akihito Tsukushi Made in Abyss
Akutami Gege Jujutsu Kaisen

Testimonials

u are one of the most generous people I’ve ever met, seeing how comfortable you were with sharing since school has always raised my own bar for what it means to be a good human and friend

— @tarngerine
U’ve gone out of your way to make others feel included and i see how much u care about your friendships + communities u created. You’re consistent in your ideals and you apply them to your work. You recommended N:A AND AoT which literally became my fav game and show!

— @chik
Easily one of the most genuine people I know. You’re kind, honest, and casually drop some of the most damning truths in conversation. Which is to say, that you’re generous—with your knowledge, your desire to build friendships, and even your Plex account. Justin is a good person and an even better singer. 10/10 🥲

— @zo_ing
Don’t let Justin’s morose facade fool you— underneath is a funny & thoughtful guy who genuinely will put in the work to co-create a thriving relationship. Justin brings a collected and anchoring presence; he’d be a great partner to problem solve life’s twists and turns with.

— @samiadraws

Risks and Challenges

No relationship is without it's risks and challenges, and I am just as human as anyone else. I am trying to be more mindful of my flaws to become a better person. Here are some things I'm working on that you might still run into:

Codependency

Codependent tendencies have ended two relationships for me so far. After the last one, I've started diving into it more and unraveling my childhood trauma because I don't want it to happen again. There's unfortunately a whole lot to unpack.

Relationship patterns

I realized I've kind of dated the same "blueprint" of a person for the past 20 years. It's pretty weird and has only served to re-traumatize me over and over again. I honestly still don't know how to deprogram this one.

Anxiety

Turns out I'm actually very anxious. This manifests as needing a lot of validation and having a very hard time believing that good things are actually real—probably including you.

Get in touch

So you read all this and you actually want to get to know me more?

I'm primarily looking for women who want to chat and maybe go on a date, but new friends are always welcome too.

DM me on Twitter or send me an email at holla<at>jedmund.com and let's start chatting.

@jedmund is not single